Friday, January 16. 2009
How To Meet Girls
Tuesday, January 6. 2009
Success With Women
If you would like to have success with women, then it's important that you take the steps to make that a reality. There are many things that will begin to increase your chances in this area, the most important of which is knowing the kinds of stuff that women look for in a man. The most obvious of these in having high self-confidence and believe in yourself.
Work out. You may think this is a cliche but there is no other sure-fire confidence booster than working on your body. It doesn’t have to be weight lifting either; it can be simply running or biking. Focus on something that improves your health and look so you feel better when it’s time to hit on girls.
Convicted and has strong beliefs. Be opinionated about things. If you ask someone a question about a topic and they have something interested to say about it, that’s attractive. Be opinionated.
Have something different to talk about then everyone else! Girls are looking for interesting, even facinating men. If you culture yourself a little, you'll soon discover that you can be far more interesting to her than any other man.
Never be direct with women. It just doesn't work, so keep her guessing and you'll be able to maintain her interest and spark an attraction.
To have th most success with women you should try to get girls to laugh and have a good time. This way you'll be able get the m feeling great around you.
Being direct. Being direct is very powerful and attractive. People use indirect methods because they want to ‘feel things out’ and not get hurt. Being direct shows that you are confident, bold and not scared of rejection.
So remember those points and use them to have more success with women.
Tuesday, December 23. 2008
Flirting With Girls
High school girls are a little different from ones in college and beyond. They are not yet emotionally developed so you will be unable to connect with them by using complicated or involved routines. They take cues from who they should like through their friends, so if her friends don’t think you are cool then you have absolutely no chance. If it happens that you meet her without her friends around but she needs their validation, you will not get anywhere. She’ll just freeze up and not talk to you.
On the other hand if she is the independent type without a lot of friends, then you can hit on her like you normally would an older girl. It comes down to if she is the popular cliquey type or not. If she is then your job is harder; otherwise it’s easier.
The best way to flirt with high school girls is to establish fast interest and then make it seem like you don’t like her. For some reason this formula is like crack to the high school girl. You want to get off the on the right foot by making her laugh or having a solid first conversation, then follow them with being aloof and teasing her mercifully. The more she thinks you don’t like her, the more she will like you.
This strategy sometimes works on older chicks, but it’s much more deadly when flirting with high school girls. You have to be that guy that simply doesn’t give a fuck but is cool and mostly friendly around her friends. There will be a moment when it’s obvious she likes you because she keeps asking you questions. That’s when you get her isolated and go for the kill, usually after playing the text messaging game.
Meeting high school girls is easy if you are in high school (obviously), but if you’re not in high school then your best bet is the mall on the weekends, especially the food court. The food court is like home base for the high school crowd and you will have to approach with something like, “You guys go to ________ high school right?” If all else fails then you can always hit on your teacher.
Flirting and building attraction is where the magic happens... where she decides that she wants to sleep with you. Unless you have a plan or method for this step, you're working on blind luck. If she doesn't happen to be into your looks, do you know what to do to still get her number, a date, and more?
Friday, December 19. 2008
How To Get Girls
Finding out how to get girls is such a fantastic feeling that I have ever since begun to show other men how to do it in my spare time.
All you need to do is get a good grip beneath their shoulders and lift. I think even if it was this easy, most guys still wouldn’t be able to do it because of all the mental blocks they have: “What if I lift her and she thinks I’m ugly? What if I lift her and then I don’t know where to take her? What if there’s another guy who just lifted her recently and he’s a better lifter?” Now when you consider that most guys are scared to death about talking to a strange woman, you have a recipe for disaster. Fear not, there is hope.
It is possible to learn how to attract and pick up women even if you have never done it before. Sometimes it requires little adjustments to your personality, sometimes big ones. Regardless, starting from any skill level, you can go from “not being able to talk to a girl” to being very successful with women in a short period of time by following some key concepts. One of the best places to start is to hang out with men whom are successful with women. By observation, osmosis and asking key questions, you can improve your skill quite rapidly. If you don’t have the opportunity to hang out with successful men, then the next best thing is to read books by men whom are very successful with women. They will give you the theory, the techniques and open your eyes to things that previously seemed impossible.So let’s break this down into simple steps.
1) Figure out what you want in a woman (preparation)
2)Approach a woman, say something interesting / captivating / entertaining.
3) Referring to Step 1, speak about topics that will allow you to know more about her while telling herself about you.
For example, if in Step 1, you realized that you wanted an adventurous girl in your life, then in Step 3, you could mention a story where you did something adventurous yourself… from that, see how she reacts. That’s normal conversation! When you supplement light conversation with smiles, teasing and light touching (kino), it becomes flirting.
To recap, the absolute best way to learn about how to pick up women is to hang out with guys that are good at it already. If you don’t have this luxury, then the next best thing will be to practice. The best book I can recommend on picking up women would be one written by David D. He’s one of the guru’s on the subject and his book is currently the #1 book on the seduction charts.
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